i know some people (j) feel that im on a soapbox when i give out advice and he feels unless its solicited you shouldn't-HOWEVER i could not more disagree
people don't always know when they are messing up and in their own way -and people shouldnt always be offended when someone tries to help them-i mean if you were falling down some stairs would you not someone to help you because you didn't ASK-i think NOT
so back to my point-i get the whole men are from mars and women are from venus-i get that-makes sense that we will never be 100% in sync with the other sex BUT there are some things that make coexisting EASY
words-people tend to forget just how powerful words can be-words can MAKE your day or words can BREAK your day and even though the old sticks and stones adage sounded good-we all know its BS-because words can be like little daggers in ones heart
so my relationship advice for today for EVERYONE is to ALWAYS CHOOSE YOUR WORDS WISELY-sure you can apologize later or tomorrow BUT once those words leave your mouth the damage is done-dont say stuff you dont mean-your objective should never be to GET EVEN or INFLICT PAIN on that person
there is another adage-im gonna mess it up but the gist of it is when governing yourself use your mind but when dealing with others use your heart
everything cannot be practical
life is not always practical and its not always nice so within your relationships-you should try to create your own escape and your own place of security-love-passion-trust-and happiness
life is too short to spend it fighting arguing or being mean to someone-especially when there are enough other people in the world all the more willing to be mean and nasty to you
so like they say @ 624 West End -LET THEM EAT BACON!!!!!
