update from me on my by me

i figured i better write a few words before certain people started complaining or others thought my blog got shut down

its been a minute, life is still good, life is GREAT....
one of my supreme besties and sister from another mister got engaged on Valentine's Day and the other part of the triple threat is now expecting baby numero DOS

for most women their initial thoughts are never putting someone else's happiness first but my heart literally swelled in their exciting news and life changing moments

i can't think of any two more deserving women than Coco and Kelz and yes i am biased because they are my sisters but still

I am excited for Summer 2015 for Kellee and 2016 for Court...life changes but I have realized that as life changes, life gets sweeter and we grow and we learn and we become better people..or at least we should

our paths and obstacles define us in so much as we either learn from them and dance to a different beat or we continue to take the path of thorny bushes and difficulty

i look forward to the new adventures our trio will have ...kids and spouses are a new dynamic but it gives us another common ground and another strand in our relationship that further strengthens us

a lesson i have learned and its about putting it into practice is being able to say I am sorry

pride is such an evil and ugly disease but when you hurt someone you have to be able to step aside for a moment and swallow it and say you are sorry
its not easy but if your heart is in the right place and that person is truly in your heart then just say it
because as Maya Angelou said people may forget all the things you do for them but people will NEVER forget how you make them feel

i want people to feel that i treated them with respect and love and kind heartedness

ok short blog two different topics but hey im out of practice
adios

and of out nowhere HERE i am

So I was in the gym this morning and I saw the corniest commercial and in the spirit of Kellee who always asks me to write a funny blog here it goes.

As we get closer to the ever romantic holiday of VALENTINE'S DAY-the commercials have begun wtih what to get and what she will love

from the .."He went to Jared's " commercials to the "A Diamond is forever" ones-to the EXTREME and EXTREMELY bad commercial i saw today

I am sorry Vermont Teddy Bears BUT I am NOT and DO not want a LIFE SIZED teddy bear
i am good and dang on grown

i saw that commercial and not only did i almost fall off the treadmill and not from lack of coordination but in awe at the BAD direction that tv media was giving men

they even had a woman standing there with a low cut tank top and clearly a push up bra with a box of chocolates and she looks at them and throws them down in disgust WHICH folks lets pause for a moment..no woman EVER has thrown out chocolote that is just nothing short of Jihad

and in the next moment she tosses the flowers in the trash and then her goofy boyfriend comes in with a lifesized teddy bear and her face lights up

if this is not some delusional crazy i don't know what is

it was sad and i sincerely hope that no man who thinks in the darkest of corners of his man brain that giving a GROWN woman a massive teddy bear or a teddy bear in general once you are out of high school will score you anymore than a night alone and possibly a ticket to the freeway of being SINGLE is sadly mistaken


SO I know the argument could be wow that sounds ungrateful and its the thought that counts
well guess what HAD a guy given it some thought #1 he would know his partner and #2 he would have THOUGHT better than to buy a stupid teddy bear for her to do what with-lay and lounge on like its a bean bag

this whole commercial makes me roll my eyes with irritation

ok that's all
that is my vent for today
i am stepping off my soapbox