Heading back north

Well for all that know my frustration and irritation-its all about to begin

Constant incessant chatter
But thank gosh and jehovah for noise canceling headphones

What a genius
I had a blast with the family and my nieces were super cute this morning as they left for church

So now tucked under my hat and with beautiful noise eliminating ear buds I can pretend the talking aimlessly is not happening

The bad part because I'm sure I sound mean but what's worst is that its not me-the siblings just say ah-hun and don't ever pay attention

Which for a normal person shortens whatever they are saying BUT not in this situation

Well its been good times here in adamsville al-aside from the heat which I would complain about anywhere :)
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Southern saturday

So its my last day/night in AL-the weather was cool-it rained earlier and all day yesterday

I went and got my feet done at Nail Castle-its funny hearing southerners with that thick drawl and most entertaining

So we return to DC tomorrow-the honeymoon is over-Eric will be back with us.
Amazing how one person can change the dynamics of a situation-it will take some readjusting to

I miss my yoga I miss my Bella
I have selfish ways yes I know yes I admit
I try to work on it
I know its not my attractive trait
I won't try to explain

It just takes a certain balance a certain amount of time management
I'm not just selfish with my husband-its my sister-my brother-my nephews

I like one on one me me me

Ok enough of my own self admission and self induced honesty

Love me for who I am
Love me for how I am
Love me for what I am not
Love me for what I will never be

Love me or leave me
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Wow

Ok I had to blog about something but breaking alert
So sitting here at a mini gas station /store/hangout

This chick with her bonnet-YES the black satin kind with the whiite trim+ a wife beater-and a sarong and isotoner slippers just walked by

#1 u come out to the dirty gas station in satin slippers-GROSS
And no comment on the sarong up to the vajayjay

Now what I was gonna say was HOW OLD DO I LOOK
I mean I laugh about looking young but what's with the teenage boys and now girls hitting on me

The chick at subway practically just offered me the best night of my life :)

I don't see how people can be homophoebic-its flattering when anyone finds me attractive :)
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Hello from birmingham

So another hot sweltering morning rises in the south

My body feels like a vampires-i find myself weakened by the high temps and I have to seek refuge in the subartic air

So I have made some observations we passed some glowing grave markers yesterday-not sure if I even have a proper response for that

At the graduation-well it was a lot of people who forgot they were in a church and thought they were at a stadium-i don't know its something about the ghetto yelling when you are in a church
And apparently there iis something about graduations and weddings that make certain folks and a certain type of folks dress like they are for sale-i saw more breasts thighs and cottage cheese then one should EVER see!

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First night in Birmingham

So we got in to the south last night after a rocky start.

Due to some lovely DC traffic we got the baby to the petcare place at like 6pm and our flight out of Baltimore was at 8pm

We arrive at 730 pm well that's when me and the bags hopped out-Orenthal still had to park the car-so shortly he was running thru the airport in full glorly

FUNNY-and at this point I could laugh because during the tense ride over I was quiet and the good wife-not exacerbating the situation

So we got in and chatted it up with marcus and junaye and eric who I promise you if he were talking to my grandma would have turned her beltone down

And even this morning he is beyond chatty and yes I know he is excited and I'm glad he is happy to see ray cuz best believe its not me-his sis and I talked last night eric sees me and marcus (her hubby) as in the way
Not sure if he thinks its gonna just be the three of them again but NOPE marcus and I are interference so
He tolerates us which means I am justified in my little snickers


Heheh
Ok that's it for now
I'm sure the saga will continue
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ahhh

So i have had to remove some sensitive folks from the blog reading list

some people and their guilty conscious felt they were being targeted-all i can say is IF i am making specific reference I have no qualms about putting your name out there

but if i don't its probably general and IF the shoe fits...

I'm back

So I was recooperating yesterday from some cold or allergy cooties.
Went to yoga last night-wasn't sure if I should but felt better after.

Got my true blood season 2 yesterday so that has kept my attention.

Let me just say men-wow you guys are overly sensitive and dish stuff out but can't take it.
Not only can you NOT take it you somehow can't even see the exact same action when you do it vs when we as women do it.

The second part of that is instead of always assuming the worst sometimes just listen to what we say-its called constructive criticism-but when its from someone you love-you guys want to get your panties in a bunch
Its not that serious at all-
And men you and your moods-get it together you are quick to point out our bad moods but hell we bleed for 7 days-yal get in these unecessary moods and all it does is creative ridiculous friction and tension and what for!

Once again I say life is way too short to smell the small stuff
Love your mate-show them every chance you get-if you don't in todays world it opens things up to someone else showing the love


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is it really that hard

I LOVE YOU
means that I accept you
for the person that you are
and that I don't wish to
change you into someone else

I LOVE YOU
means that I will love you
and stand by you even
through the worst of times

I LOVE YOU
means that I am
thinking of you
dreaming of you
wanting and needing you
constantly, and hoping
you feel the same way for me

I LOVE YOU...
means forever...


I read that poem and i thought id share with yal-since im the perpetual hopeless romantic

soo this is my BIG question of the day! It's about the OTHER gender

WHY is it so hard for them to realize that if they LOVE their woman and love her HARD and PASSIONATELY she will LOVE you even harder and give you the WORLD and walk the earth for you

its a SIMPLE equation-
women want PASSION consistently-they want to feel LOVED above all else -they want AFFECTION-ROMANCE-they are really SIMPLE things in the grand scheme
Men want to make it rocket science BUT its NOT and if you just go with it and put yourselves aside
the greater REWARD

is a woman who would GIVE ANYTHING and EVERYTHING for YOU and to YOU and would love you will ALL that she IS and could ever be


so maybe someone can tell me why this is harder than curing cancer!

Yoga princess here

So I think I may have finally figured why crackheads are so in trance with crack-ok wait bad example-i now empathize and under the concept of adrenanline junkie

I went to another yoga class last night-it was great-i feel great-i know right now its new and exciting but I find myself looking forward to the next class after each class.

Yesterday was an alignment class-my body feels so much more aware and I know it sounds like bs but I turned and twisted and things popped and cracked but I've been sleeping like a champ-within ten minutes of pillow contact I'm out

But let me say this the Bikram yoga-i used to want to try it but best believe after passing that sweatbox studio on the way to mine-i think NOT-it smelled like hot sweaty corn chip feet!
I'm sure its amazing with miraculous benefits but I think the nausea would take over

So tonight I want to go but I have 7pm plans so I'm not sure if I can possibly squeeze in a 5-6 class-hmmmm


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The adventures of the yoga princess

In life there are often haters-in Jersey City there are more diligent ones!
Some who feel I cannot be deemed the yoga princess after one class but I didn't choose it-it chose me!
Although it may be yoga princess guru in another few months!

So I went to my first official class outside of 2424 where it was more than me myself and i-where I couldn't take breaks and be accompanied by a 4 legged dog durng my downward dog

I must admit I love how I feel right now-i took slow flow yoga which was actually strengthening yoga-oh well I worked damn hard and this more I feel it-i crave that pain that soreness-the kind that let's me know I was pushing myself and that I will some changes

And best believe I will post some greased up pics of me in my spandex!
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The adventures of princess yoga

In life there are often haters-in jersey city there is a major yoga hater-hehe-one who feels I can't be deem princess yoga quite yet-but hey
I didn't pick the title-it picked ME!

But anywayz-so I actually went to a yoga class last night so there was more than just me myself and i-but it was good-it was strengthening yoga-i love how my body feels-i love it-challenging but I love that slight edge of pain/soreness
Tonight -another class!
Let's see what happens to this old body :)
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Saturday satisfaction

So I woke up this morning and felt extra trim and lean-granted its probably cuz I haven't eaten yet BUT I digress so I have on my black spandex capris and no on me they are not extra tight at all and a long sports bra in a pretty peach color
I was gonna put a top over it but since I looked extra long and lean I skipped it and tossed on my new easy tone shoes and my fitted black hat

So now while at the commissary the butcher told me IM NOT GAY OR NOTHING BUT WHEN I GET MY SHAPE LIKE YOURS-DONT BE MAD
I felt like wow-what a compliment-it made my day so I had to share :)
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A few truths

#1 Common is fine as hell sexy as hell wow! Ummm wow

#2-just like fat people have to buy two airline seats-same rules need to apply for movie theaters no question asked

#3 Just Wright was a good movie-loved it and did I mention how amazingly fine COMMON is-he moves to my sexy list-damn Williams sister!

Ok that's it for now

Oh #4- WHY must black people clap at the end of a movie-we are not at the theater or ballet-geez
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avoiding the wrath of sabrina

so i figured if i didn't want to get an obnoxious email or BBM later-I better darn sure produce some type of blog to keep her happy

lets see-i am sitting here at my desk-i feel sick-so im sipping my gatorade through a straw....

despite having a shitty night's sleep-i was able to pull myself together and look presentable in some nice jeans-black heels-a purple tee and a charcoal blazer-not too bad i must say

so i have been thinking about my blog and the direction i want to take with it-i know i like to discuss either food, great restaurants, rants of the day, or sometimes relationship advice

i guess i dont need to stick with one topic its MY blog

soo according to a certain peon -i am like Palin when I am spouting my thoughts, opinions, and relationship advice-BUT once again its MY blog and FURTHER-i have lots of dating experience and relationship insight-i have worked with lots of guys and have brothers so i hear lots of BS and sometimes some good stuff
so its not a matter of feeling qualified BUT i am not pulling stuff out my arse and once again-its MY blog

so my thought for today is-its so easy in our lives and in our relationships to get so lost and focus on the I and what the "I" wants to do that sometimes we forget about that other person-the other half of the equation that makes it a "WE"

with the way things are -life being as predictable as a flower girl at a wedding-it is so important to know where the value lies in the people and things in our life...is that sports game more important than sleeping in or spending a weekend with the one you love?


is the bar more important than the one you proclaim to love?

what are people ultimately trying or hoping to accomplish by choosing what it is they want to do?

Does it boil down to people being innately SELFISH?

A wise person told me once-when you are in a relationship-you will be 100 times happier if you always put the other person and their happiness first. and that's not to say lose yourself-BUT isnt that why we are with that person-to make THEM happy which in turn makes US happy?

otherwise-be ALONE-if you dont want the commitment if you dont want the privilege of loving and being loved by some than dont waste their time or yours because there are PLENTY of people out there who want to willing give love and receive love without all the hassle

in the movie whyd i get married they brought of a good line i love WHEN YOU SAID I DO-YOU GAVE UP THE I-FOR WE

i think this applies beyond marriage but adult relationships-when you chose to engage in an adult relationship there are certain expectations

so shit or get off the pot

ok i know i digressed immensely but the point of it all-is make it about the other person not YOU and the relationship will grow and most smart men know-a happy woman-equals a happy EVERYONE!

relationship advice

i know some people (j) feel that im on a soapbox when i give out advice and he feels unless its solicited you shouldn't-HOWEVER i could not more disagree

people don't always know when they are messing up and in their own way -and people shouldnt always be offended when someone tries to help them-i mean if you were falling down some stairs would you not someone to help you because you didn't ASK-i think NOT

so back to my point-i get the whole men are from mars and women are from venus-i get that-makes sense that we will never be 100% in sync with the other sex BUT there are some things that make coexisting EASY

words-people tend to forget just how powerful words can be-words can MAKE your day or words can BREAK your day and even though the old sticks and stones adage sounded good-we all know its BS-because words can be like little daggers in ones heart

so my relationship advice for today for EVERYONE is to ALWAYS CHOOSE YOUR WORDS WISELY-sure you can apologize later or tomorrow BUT once those words leave your mouth the damage is done-dont say stuff you dont mean-your objective should never be to GET EVEN or INFLICT PAIN on that person

there is another adage-im gonna mess it up but the gist of it is when governing yourself use your mind but when dealing with others use your heart

everything cannot be practical
life is not always practical and its not always nice so within your relationships-you should try to create your own escape and your own place of security-love-passion-trust-and happiness

life is too short to spend it fighting arguing or being mean to someone-especially when there are enough other people in the world all the more willing to be mean and nasty to you

so like they say @ 624 West End -LET THEM EAT BACON!!!!!

Pain oh pain

Let me just keep this short and say there are aches and pains and THEN there are tooth aches!

Whoa-there is no reason why tooth ache and I can't get along-i mean can I at least get some good sleep!

Calling the dentist today ASAP otherwise I got something for mr toothache in the name of ms percocet

Don't wanna go there but dang
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A few grips

Soo FIRST I want to say happy 21st birthday to my besty Kellee! *cough cough* hope your day is spectacular!

Soo last night I was super excited for walking Bella for a little over an hour-was thinking wow we got a good workout so as we are coming around the corner the darn Mormon guys got us. I was caught off guard in one of my rare polite moments where I was incapable of being mean.

So here I am listening to these two young Mormons whose name tags read ELDER SWAN and ELDER (I can't remember) BUT please tell me how you guys are elder anything when you are younger than me.
So they have my work # very easy to filter thru but bottom line I was polite but not interested

Then I came in and got my True Blood in-sighhhhhh LOVE it! That was the highlight of my day!

Now today is FRIDAY-almost Mothers Day so happy day to all Momma's!

Have a good one oh and PS if my challenged and afflicted brother calls any of you any time soon-dont answer and don't be flattered now that he has his new phone I think he is just calling everyone in his phone with no preference!

Haha that's Verizon Droid!


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Cinco de mayo

Happy cinco de mayo!

I wish margaritas sangrias fajitas and tacos on everyone!

So despite the adverse reaction my body had to a fiber OD on this amazing granolla my mom sent me from Michigan-as I ride to work right now its all I can think about!

This granola may be the best thing I have eaten in a LONG time!

So not that I am rushing time but time truly stands still for no one-i liike to look in terms of seasons and my favorite two are fall and winter-its crazy because we are already in May month FIVE 5! That's crazy!

This week is my Kels birthday-im excited for her but then its that reminder of our not being 16 or even 18 anymore and granted our adultness is way cooler and filled with way more pleasurable experiences-i can't believe we are actually aging-wow

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The reality of tuesday

I hate to start the day with a sad blog, but sometimes its not about us and about what is.
So yesterday was a regular monday-the usual moans-groans-and yawns.
I noticed my new co-worker who is a retired agent now contractor wasn't in but no big deal

Then the email comes out.. And just like that things are put into perspective

Here is a man who just retired who's wife still was residing in washington state planning to move out in july with their boxer-a wife who was about to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary-and she passed sunday night
Here he was in dc not with her and yet so far away

I tell this story not to make anyone sad but to remind each and everyone of you how fragile life is and for those of you himming and hawwing in a relationship or holding back on anything in your life-MAN UP get it together-if you keep waiting for that perfect time or when you feel things are right-it may never happen or life has other plans

Tomorrow is not promised-not to good people nor bad-so whatever you are doing in your life go big or go home-dont string people along-if you can't get your act together don't bring them down with you let them have a chance at happiness

Sorry for the soapbox but there are too many people who would love another day and would never take anything or any moment for granted

So hold someone longer-kiss them more passionately-tell them you love them even more! Don't have regrets


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Morning Monday!

Good morning yalsies! (Yes NEW word)

So I'm just heading to work-its rainy and thundering LOVELY-but I guess DH is happy because his newly planted grass seed is getting a major round of H20!

So what I find annoying at the time and slightly humorous this morning is WHENEVER my DH snores at night and grates on my nerves-his 4 legged twin Bella is matching her dad snore for snore! I don't know if she plans it that way but when he snores SHE snores and when he's quiet SHE is quiet!

So my new goal for the summer is to have the most spectacular most defined most cut most diesel arms. I'm working hard and right now they look good and defined but I'm going for total ripped-tation!

Anywho-some judgey person complained about the format of my blog so I am trying to shorten the runons-but that's my style AND I think its what happens when I write from my BB so *sticking tongue out* and *raspberries* to you!

Love passion and bacon to everyone!
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