In my constant quest to understand relationships and the mechanics behind the dynamics of males and females
my thoughts today led me to wonder about the cliche phrase "fits like a glove"
do we find that our relationships that "fit like a glove" are easier and most fulfilling
i instantly think of my other half ...32 years and we have had a seamless easy free flowing relationship...
unlike many other females we have not encountered the hiccups and friction so often associated with the estrogen intense sex
but then as i reflect further i remember some of my most memorable relationships with the opposite sex and i think about the relationships that were just "easy"
i like to think that i am a low drama..drama free woman and i dont feel a relationship needs drama in order to validate it
maybe it sounds very unicorn and rainbows to expect that in an adult relationship people will have respect, talk to you with a certain amount of kindness and gentleness, and use basic courtesies
i dont think you need to argue constantly and i dont think arguments have to be ugly
i believe that if i love you even if you make me mad i will still use kind words
i wont go for the jugular
i believe in saying im sorry even if its not my fault
i think keeping the peace is far more important than my pride/ego
relationships no doubt are work...but when it is an uphill battle do you question more WHY
Is there such a thing as a "PERFECT RELATIONSHIP"
not perfect people but two flawed people who mesh together to create the PERFECT relationship
not one with no problems but one where problems are tackled head on with love and respect...love first so that the aftermath is never
a relationship where even when you dont see eye to eye the love is never in question the affection is never withheld
I think the perfect relationship is the couple that is dedicated to the relationship at all cost
the couple that remains open minded
the couple that is committed to continued growth and realizes that relationships grow and change are ready and willing to hang on for the ride and go with the ebbs and flows
to be selfless in a relationship to GENUINELY put the needs and emotions and feelings of another ahead of your own....
so back to idea of fitting like a glove....i think every relationship ..every couple are different but from a outsiders view the couples that you look up to and emulate are the ones that are in sync...the ones that seem to just flow together....they almost have become one....they operate together like a well oiled machine .....
it seems effortless even if its not
i wonder if those are the long lasting epic relationships
i wonder if "fitting like a glove" is a element or recipe for success or is it just more rainbows and unicorns idealistic thoughts and ideals.........
