sunday RAIN

sitting here in my super comfy GAP sweats and a long sleeve tee ...fresh from the spa and since today is slightly rainy and dreary i am in the house...my classic fave movie ARMAGEDDON is on...so i am just kicked back...Bella has found her self in the bed with me....she WAS on her side but now is right on my feet at the bottom

so recently me and my bestie were having a discussion on HONESTY and being around honest people who have your best interest and your back

now we both agreed that as adults its not cool to nag something and we are not someone's Mom in this case

BUT i feel it is so important to have honest people around you...you need a few friends and family who will always be completely honest with you

the kind who will tell you when you are doing wrong or out of line and not sugar coat or condone bad behavior

you/we need to be surrounded by people who are more concerned with your best interest than telling you what you want to hear

i am so thankful for kelz...she has always been around to tell me when i am wrong or when i may want to rethink something

and its a true friend and in that love that you find comfortable being honest with the other person...i mean a relationship goes both ways

i can tell her what i think and i dont have to fear that she will think i am trying to be malicious or hurt her and that i am coming from a place of love...

we wondered as we talked about this last week...how many other people have friends of equal caliber 

do you have lots of YES friends or true blue friends

i think if more friends were honest about outfits or about choices maybe a small percent of people would rethink some of their decisions

hmmm just a thought

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april janelle