Monday, February 16, 2015

update from me on my by me

i figured i better write a few words before certain people started complaining or others thought my blog got shut down

its been a minute, life is still good, life is GREAT....
one of my supreme besties and sister from another mister got engaged on Valentine's Day and the other part of the triple threat is now expecting baby numero DOS

for most women their initial thoughts are never putting someone else's happiness first but my heart literally swelled in their exciting news and life changing moments

i can't think of any two more deserving women than Coco and Kelz and yes i am biased because they are my sisters but still

I am excited for Summer 2015 for Kellee and 2016 for Court...life changes but I have realized that as life changes, life gets sweeter and we grow and we learn and we become better people..or at least we should

our paths and obstacles define us in so much as we either learn from them and dance to a different beat or we continue to take the path of thorny bushes and difficulty

i look forward to the new adventures our trio will have ...kids and spouses are a new dynamic but it gives us another common ground and another strand in our relationship that further strengthens us

a lesson i have learned and its about putting it into practice is being able to say I am sorry

pride is such an evil and ugly disease but when you hurt someone you have to be able to step aside for a moment and swallow it and say you are sorry
its not easy but if your heart is in the right place and that person is truly in your heart then just say it
because as Maya Angelou said people may forget all the things you do for them but people will NEVER forget how you make them feel

i want people to feel that i treated them with respect and love and kind heartedness

ok short blog two different topics but hey im out of practice
adios